her concerns are other.

"In situations like this the three of them huddled together for self-protection: they had no children whose cutenesses could be compared, no homes whose furnishings were of much importance, and no husbands, details of whose eccentricities and nasty habits could be exchanged. Their concerns were other."
- Margaret Atwood, The Edible Woman
curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back.